Thanksgiving – Sharing Gratitude

A Family Tradition

Over the last several years, our family has created a small Thanksgiving tradition.  After we chow down on turkey and potatoes and before the obligatory pie, we take a few minutes to reflect on the past year.

What do we do in those minutes?  Everyone at the table is given a 3 x 5 card and a pen. On the card each person writes at least three things from the last year for which they are thankful.

Over the past few years our family has created a Thanksgiving tradition.

turkey, potatoes, stuffing, pumpkin on a table; Thanksgiving - sharing gratitude

How we read the cards is not the point. Reflecting on what we are grateful for and sharing that with others is the point!

blank notecard on a brown surface, next to a pencil; sharing gratitude

Reflecting and Sharing

Once the writing is complete, we do one of two things.  We either read our own cards aloud or we play a little game.  For the game we shuffle the cards, deal them out, then read them aloud, with everyone trying to guess who wrote which items.

How we read out what’s written on the card is not truly the point.  The point is to help our family take a few minutes to reflect on what we are thankful for and to recognize that in front of everyone.

Benefits of Gratitude

For Ourselves

The Mayo Clinic has stated that “expressing gratitude is associated with a host of mental and physical benefits.  Studies have shown that feeling thankful can improve sleep, mood, and immunity.”

But the Mayo Clinic isn’t the only place that speaks about the benefit of being thankful or joyous.   Proverbs 17:22 states, “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bone.”

For Others

Improving personal mental health and having good medicine seem to be excellent benefits of showing gratitude.  But these are benefits that extend well beyond our own lives.  Hearing positive words of thanks can encourage those around us as well.  This is why we started our tradition of reading our 3 x 5 cards aloud.

Share some words of gratitude to a family member or a friend.  Watch the impact those words have on their life, and yours.

give thanks on white sign held in front of a person; sharing gratitude

Sharing Gratitude with Others

You don’t need to have 3 x 5 cards or “read around the table” this Thanksgiving.  I would like to encourage you to take a moment and share some words of gratitude to a family member or a friend.  Share with sincerity and watch the impact those words have on their life, and yours.

From Twin Feathers

The Twin Feathers team would like to share how thankful we are for our clients and the opportunity we have to serve them daily. We are grateful for all the amazing people we work with, both inside and outside of the propane industry.  Our hope is that you all have many things to be thankful for this holiday season, and that you have the chance to share some of that gratitude with those around you.

Warm wishes from Twin Feathers for a very happy Thanksgiving!

Sharing Gratitude at Thanksgiving

By JD Buss